How can I help my child learn to read and write?
     As your child’s teacher, parents who ask this question are the most important partners I have in educating your child.  Parents are the most important role models in a child’s life.  Parents can be especially helpful in communicating to their children that there are good, meaningful reasons to learn how to read and write.  Here are just a few suggestions and activities that can be done at home to help your become a successful, motivated writer and reader. Remember the only way your child is going to learn to read and write is to read and write!

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booksWrite simple notes to your child and post them around the house  Example: “Please put away toys.” May be a message on their bedroom door.
booksAllow your child to write you messages and post them around the house.  Don’t overemphasize errors in grammar, punctuation or spelling.  However, they should proofread what they have written.
booksAllow your child to see you writing every day for different reasons.
booksSet up writing corner where they can write their own stories and make their own books. 
booksEncourage your child to share what they have written. 
booksWhen traveling, have your children keep a journal and write about what they do and see. 
booksHave them assist you in making the grocery list.
booksEncourage your children to write thank you notes for presents they receive and letters to friends and relatives.
booksAsk them to rewrite T.V. commercials or make up new ones.

         

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booksReading needs to be a priority in your home. Be positive! Even if you have to fake it.  Reading should be a relaxed, fun time for you and your child.  This may be hard at times, especially when the dog is barking and the baby is crying, and the other kids are yelling—So . . .
booksSet aside a quite time for everyone to stop and read.
booksRemember practice makes perfect.  Rereading stories and books is great.  It is the best way to build fluency.  I tell the children we don’t want to sound like robots when we read.
booksEncourage (and model) them to read with expression.
booksRead with and to your children every day.  Encourage them to read to you and each other. Give books and subscriptions as gifts. See me for title ideas.
booksVisit the library weekly.  Does your child have a favorite author or favorite subject?  Pick out a variety of books: mysteries, nonfiction, fiction, science, animals, poems, rhymes, etc. 

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booksReading the Book.  They have the book in their hands. Now What?
     These are some suggested ideas and questions.  Please use your best judgment when reading.
 

Before the Reading:
booksPoint out author and illustrator.  Has this author written any other books you/we have read?
booksFrom the title and or pictures, what do you think this story will be about? Why?
booksWhere and when do you think this story takes place? Why?
booksWhile you read the story, does the characters remind you of others you have read about in other stories?
booksWhile you read the story, is it like any other story you have read?

During the Reading
booksWhat do you think is going to happen next? Why?
How is    ?   feeling about what is happening?  How did you know?
booksHow do you think the story is going to end?
booksDon’t spend an enormous amount of time trying to get your child to figure out a word.  Try to keep reading a pleasant, positive experience.
booksPlease do not say, “That’s an easy word,” or “You should know that word.”


     I play a game called “Prove It” while reading the book.  After students have read 1 long or 2 short pages, I will ask a question about something that they just read.  Then they have to find the proof either in a sentence or picture to support their answer. 

After the Reading
booksPraise your child for a job well done!
booksWhere and when did the story take place?  (the setting)
booksWhat problem, conflict, and situations does the story tell about?
booksRetell the main events in sequence.
booksDid the story end the way you thought it would?
booksThink of a different ending to the story.
booksIs this story like any other you have read?
booksWho is the main character?
booksIs the character like any other you have read about?
booksWho are the other characters and how are they important to the story?

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What To Do When They Don’t Know A Word
   Parents often tell a child to “sound out” a word they don’t know.  Most of time this works.  When sounding out does not’t work, what else can parents do?  The following ideas help your child develop other strategies in figuring out unknown words.

booksGive your child 5 – 10 seconds to see what they try.
booksAsk “What would make sense there”? Does it sound right? Does it look right?
booksUse the picture to help figure out what it could be.
booksSkip the word and continue reading to end of sentences. Now what do you think the word could be?
Go back and read sentence again. 
booksLook how the word begins.  What word would make sense?
booksLook for a smaller baby word in the word
booksCover –ed, -ing and try word.
booksHelp with blending (sounding it out)
booksTell the word and keep on reading.

It is vital that your child learn these strategies independently.  When your child does figure out a word, ask them how they did it? 

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Frequently Asked Question About Reading
1.  What do I do when my child does not’t want to read?
    Show your own interest in books. 
    Make them feel comfortable with books. 
    Look through and talk about the book with your child. 
    Start off with a few minutes a day and gradually increase time up to 10 to 15 minutes a day.
2.  What if my child wants to read the same book over and over?
    Repeat reading of the same book helps your child to practice their reading skills to become a more confident and fluent reader. We learn to read by reading. 
3.  Should I cover up the pictures in the book so that my child has to read the words?
    NO, the pictures help give understanding and meaning to the story. They are learning a very important skill – looking for additional clues to help make sense of what they are learning. 
4.  My child has memorized the story.  Is this O.K.?
   Yes, memorizing stories is an important part of early reading. This shows your child is gaining a sense of story sequence. They are also making connections between pictures and the print.

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Activities
 Rhymes~Try to rhyme everyday. Start off with saying two words that rhyme and then ask your child to add a third word. 

 Crazy Cat~ This a  “hide and seek” game to help learn letters, words, blends, etc. On each card write 1 letter, word,etc.  (Index cards are great for this) Use at least 10- 20 cards.
1.  Lay cards on table or floor with the letter/word face up so you can see them.
2. Ask child to hide their eyes or turn around.
3. Now hide a small picture of a cat (or other animal) under one of the cards.
4. Tell child they may look now.
5. One card at a time or taking turns, your child must be able to say the letter, word, etc. that is on the card before they can lift he card to see if the “crazy cat” is found. If it is a letter they have to tell me the letter sound and give me a word the starts or ends with that letter and the use that word in a sentence. If a word card is used, then they use the word in a sentence. Repeat until the cat is found.

 Salt Box~ Pour a layer of salt into a shallow box.  Have child write word in salt.

 Journal~
Child writes about their day.

 Word Search~
Use sight word card or letter cards.
1. Use 10 – 15 cards 
2. Ask child to leave the room so you can hide the cards.
3. Hide cards all over the room.
4. Call child back in room and tell them to find only certain words and the rest they must leave where they are hidden.  Let child find 5 cards. When they are found, find 5 more cards.  Rehide cards and start over.
 Word Sort~ Word sorts can be done with any set of words.  The purpose is to focus attention on certain features of the words.  Have child sort words into different piles by
1. Same number of letters
2. Same beginning or ending
3. Words that describe
4. Have same word family  __at, __am, __og, __ids, __ake, etc.
5.  Words have same blend st
__, gl__, bl__, gr__, etc.
There are many different ways to sort.


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